So after struggling for years with figuring out who I want to be it looks like I finally found the answer. Taking more time to think about myself, what’s important for me and what I want to achieve and what my goals are was especially important. And at this time social media and the…… Continue reading Finding myself
In life we are often bound by strings that hinder our free movement Relationships, worries, expectations of others, It takes time to break free from everything that hold us back. We can’t escape from everything at once. We have to work out what we want and what we are willing to give to achieve this.…… Continue reading The strings in our lives
Don’t light yourself so others are warm I was raised to be nice. I was told to share and help others. I was told that being good gets you everywhere and people will cherish you for that. But now, that I’m doing my own taxes, that I’m cooking for myself, that I’m no longer living…… Continue reading Be a bitch or go home?!
As today is Valentines Day I thought about what we want in a Relationship and what makes us happy. Relationship’s are great and beautiful and sometimes complicated, but 98% of people want to have one. As Mindmap shows, there are many things and criterias when it comes to selecting a partner. The green bubbles are…… Continue reading What we want in a Relationship
In life we walk a path with many intersections where we have to choose. What do we want for dinner at a restaurant? Is the path through the park better or the longer one around It? I a green dress better for today than a white one? Every little decision you make is a intersection…… Continue reading The path of a thousand choices
A few years ago we had a guest in Religious Education at school. He was a buddhist, meditated with us and told us about his religion. I was very curious and informed myself and that way I became a buddhist. I hever had an official “introduction” or something like that and I don’t go to…… Continue reading Finding Peace
Sometimes you’ve got to widen your horizon, your way of thinking, your way of handling things. Sometimes you have to break free of the never ending catch-22 of the daily life and work routine. Even if it means you’ve got to have fun for only a few hours – at least you enjoyed the time!…… Continue reading Widen your Horizont